Ah, eBay- land of awesome bargains, surprise sales, and the dumbest rules you’ve ever come across. My eBay story is a long one, starting way back in 1999, when I started buying and selling things on my dads account. What joy when I finally turned 18 and opened my own account! Seriously, first thing I did the morning of my 18th birthday was open my own eBay account.
I used to LOVE eBay. I would comb flea markets and toy stores for ponies and dinosaurs to sell. Selling on eBay helped pay for my Girl Scout trip to Europe, paid for my car, and helped pay for college. I used to be a staunch eBay supporter. How could I not, when I could support my college lifestyle with it? Granted, I did have a part time job, but eBay really helped bring in the extra money I needed for tuition, books, and bus passes.
2008 saw a long hiatus from selling or buying. I refused to support their feedback changes where sellers could no longer leave accurate feedback for buyers. This move alone could be pointed to as the beginning of a long downhill slide for a once great company. How could sellers know if a buyer was a problem and cancel bids? Buyers can take their time with payment, be rude, and leave negative feedback for no reason and there is nothing the seller can do about it.
After some long months of adjusting to the thoughts of pointless feedback, I returned to eBay. After all, I’m a great seller with lots of experience. I shouldn’t have problems with people leaving me negative feedback! Then 2009 came with big changes to seller fees. Sure, they dropped the listing insertion fee, but increased the final value fee by 80%. That is a HUGE fee increase. Frustrated and angry, I quit, vowing to never sell on eBay again.
Like an addict, I returned. The thought of selling things from home and bringing pony joy to people around the world was too tempting. Besides, I had some credit card debt that needed to be paid off and any extra money I could make on eBay would help with that. Through 2011, I was selling like a fiend. I would get 20 items a week listed, sometimes more. The Friendship is Magic line really revitalized the pony market and I had fooled myself into believing the glory days of the early 2000’s had returned to eBay. Uh, wrong. One buyer complained about shipping charges, stating that $3 was too much to ship a single blind bag pony. Uh, when you factor in the cost of the envelope, shipping label, ink, and actual shipping costs, that’s pretty darn accurate. I usually lost a little money on shipping. Another buyer who purchased items two weeks apart complained about me not combining shipping. Their first item had already shipped; it was impossible to combine shipping. Apparently, these two upset buyers, and one other who I have no idea what their problem was, left me 1 or 2 on the star ratings for shipping.
Black Friday, 2011, I logged into PayPal to see what my balance was and to ship some items. There was a message at the top of my account that stated:
“"While you establish a successful sales history on eBay, in most cases, funds from eBay sales are available in 21 days - or sooner, based on how you ship the order. To help get your funds faster, print your shipping labels on eBay or PayPal, upload your tracking information, or mark the items as shipped on eBay. If your buyer reports a problem, it may take longer to get your funds.”
While I establish a successful sales history? I’ve been selling under my own account since 2001. How is a decade not an established history? To make matters worse, there was a link next to each payment stating “Completed- Funds Not Yet Available” Clicking on the link provided me with the following popup:
After numerous phone calls to PayPal, I discovered that it was eBay who had placed the holds on my funds. When they reviewed my account, the three low DSR’s (Detailed Seller Ratings) had labeled me a sub-standard seller. Three people who left low ratings in a year had locked up all of my auction funds.
I raged. I complained to numerous people at PayPal and eBay. I filed reports with the California Attorney General's office. I began
a campaign against eBay on the Arena and carefully documented every interaction with both PayPal and eBay. I even began recording my phone calls because I constantly received conflicting answers from the reps. One would tell me the restrictions on my account would be removed within 48 hours, the next rep would tell me 30 days, and yet another would say “when your account is next reviewed.” I was hung up on, placed on hold for an hour at a time, and treated like dirt. Clearly, eBay does not value their sellers.
The end of November gave me a little hope. According to May, an eBay rep, all I needed to get the restriction removed was for three individual buyers to leave me all 5 star ratings on the DSR’s. My account would be reviewed again on December 20th and then the account restrictions would be removed. I listed three auctions that members of the Arena “purchased” and gave me positive feedback with 5 star ratings.
Guess what happened on December 20th? Nothing. The restrictions were still there. I paid my eBay seller fees and walked away forever. In fact, when I last logged into eBay to buy something (just last week), I received a notice about my sub-standard performance and a link to information on improving as a seller. That put a sour taste in my mouth and I didn't buy the item. Sorry seller, blame eBay.
My issues with eBay are many.
1) The legality of the holds is in question. I was the head teller at a bank for 3 years, so I am very familiar with federal regulations on holding funds. Reg CC states that funds can be held for a MAXIMUM of 14 business days. eBay holding them for 21 calendar days goes far beyond that period of time.
2) I was never notified that my account was in jeopardy of having restrictions placed on it. I was never notified that restrictions were placed on my account. I only found out about the hold after it was placed.
3) It took THREE phone calls to find out why the hold was placed! Customer service is terrible and rude.
4) Even after their criteria have been met, my account still has restrictions.
5) 10 years as a seller, over 800 positive feedbacks with no negatives, and numerous repeat customers is classified as a sub-standard seller. If my best efforts are trash in eBay’s eyes, then they don’t need my business.
My husband started calling me “eBay’s Battered Housewife.” This, while funny, is frighteningly accurate. Despite the repeated and numerous restrictions that were placed on my account, I kept remembering the good times and telling myself that I could deal with it. The high from selling another item kept calling me back for another pummeling. At this point, even having the restrictions removed would not be enough to bring me back to eBay. I guess I’ve finally taken one beating too many and have left for good.
There is a silver lining to all of this. It pushed me to grow my sales at
Etsy and the
MLP Arena. And, it has given me the impetus I needed to get my
The New Gray Mare up and running.
It is my goal to provide the ponies and and other items people are looking for quickly, with accurate descriptions, and shipping at cost. I try my hardest to be friendly and fair. I want my customers to have the best online purchasing experience possible. If I can't do that on eBay, then I can do it elsewhere.
For further reading:
My BattleAgainst eBay- at the MLP Arena Traders Support forum (Link will be updated if/when the post gets moved to the new Arena)
The first 14 comments on this thread are my posts copy/pasted from the MLP Arena thread.